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zipperhead_cop said:Without knowing anything about it I can offer a few general observations I've made over the years.
1. As mentioned, you can't help someone who doesn't want help.
2. There are women out there who live for drama. Just seeing/hearing a guy get all wound up and bothered at the idea of another guys attention gets them off. There are a great many women who go their whole lives without ever getting into one of these situations. People who repeatedly get into jackpots are doing something to bring it on themselves.
3. Local law enforcement will have zero interest in helping her unless she makes the effort. See point #1.
4. Until she tells the guy in a very clear, no-BS manner to back off she is only borderline deterring the problem. Once she does that, she should start keeping an actual written journal on times/dates/places she has had problems with the guy. This will go a long way towards a credible criminal harassment case.
5. If her name is Tanya (or any variation thereof--Tonya, Tanya, Tatiana etc) walk away now. They are all bat-sh*t crazy. A gross generalization that is based on multiple experiences.
If there is some other element to this you would rather PM over, feel free to send it to me.
I find that particularly offensive. Crazy happens under all sorts of names thank you very much.
that aside, points 1-4 are pretty solid.