Striker,
Hate to say it but you can not get a PMQ until after you finish Battle School. There are circumstances, usually based upon DIRE or significant compassionate reasons, and to be honest, from what you described, not likely.
You can ask for one in Borden, but I have a feeling that by the time it gets sorted you will be posted to a unit.
Keep in mind a move of this nature involves some pretty heavy expenses, and I believe, (I could be wrong) that you should have been told about DF&E on enrolment, especially with a child and or family.
The other thing to keep in mind, you would be moving them for what is classed a short period and then no doubt moving again too another location. It is not allowed.
All told, the CF may cite the stability of the current situ and say no.
Be honest, yes it is important to be near them, but do you want the kids first year of military exposure to be a continuous cycle of new schools, no friends, and discord. The stress to the child will be great and moving the child will cause a false sense or belief that they will be able to see you regularly. When in fact you will not.
If they are in a stable environment, and everything is manageable, leave it be. Otherwise you will end up causing yourself a mess of administration that could cause you to miss training, and in the end could have you listed as an administrative burden.
I was away from my newborn child for almost six months. I waited until I was finished Battle School and posted to my first Regiment before I brought them out. I did it during block leave and it all worked out fine. It is no fun being alone, but if the situation is stable leave it be. And no I did not see my young wife for almost a year, she was in Northern Canada. So thank your stars and go be your best and good luck.
UBIQUE
P.S. For some of the armchair warriors in here, think before you type, boneheads. This is a new recruit‘s life you are making comments about. If you have real TI and experience, say your piece, otherwise, be wise and shut up. If you have real time experience you would know that at this stage in his career the orderly room in BFC ST. Jean isn‘t going to do a whole lot other than make a s.h.i.t sandwich out of it. What‘s that going to accomplish? Recce41 knows what he is talking about!
HARRY-OUT