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After watching Sweet November with the young-lady-friend, i thought it sucked, yet she thought it was beautiful. After exploring our lines of reasoning, we found that there are different ways of dealing with grief. She, having dealt with more loss than I, goes by the "deal with it head on/cry, and let it all out" philosophy. I, on the other hand, having spent plenty of time around military, ambulance and police folks, took a different stance. In such lines of work, one can expect to see horrible things almost daily (in some cases). To deal with this, humour can be used as a coping mechanism. One PO i met this summer, who had been in East Timor, told us about some of the horrible things he saw there, yet he had probably the best sense of humour out of anyone in St. Jean. He seemed to use humour to keep oneself sane. The same sort of mentality has led to ambulances and hearses being referred to as meat-wagons by some. I feel that to adopt the other attitude would lead to a miserable life. What do you think is a more effective way of dealing with grief or trauma?