captloadie said:
But in this day and age, with the current crop of junior members, is this true? Many walk through our doors with a sense of entitlement before they even don the uniform full time. Try to get guys to put in some extra hours or attend social events without ordering them to do so; there is a general apathy in many corners. ..
There is truth to this, but I can assure you that this is absolutely not new. We were sensing this (including amongst newly arriving junior officers) when I was on regimental duty back in the 90's. (We've spoken about it on other threads related to Mess life, etc) Like all important social changes (as Jim Seggie points out with his "
planting a seed" observation) this change has been happening gradually for a while. Our society has been producing this for decades now. What did adults say about the "Hippy Generation" 40 years ago?
The whole business about speaking out is one I struggle with (and didn't handle very well when I was in uniform), but in the end I think that loyalty cannot be reduced to mere blind obedience. That way lie atrocities, war crimes, a "culture of silence" and other bad things we can remember all too well.
Normally, those in uniform follow the rules very well, and do as they're told quite happily. Sometimes, they do it grudgingly. And, very rarely, they see something that they know is wrong, and begin to struggle over what to do about it. In fact, the Army for the last few years has made a lot of noise about encouraging people to speak out ("Lamplighters", etc), so the institution seems to send the message that it's not just OK, but encouraged. Still, it's difficult.
But, that said, the right thing to do in the face of a blatant wrong or injustice, once you have taken reasonable measures inside the system, is to speak up, and be prepared to face the consequences. This is not a strong tradition in our military, maybe because it hasn't often been necessary.
On the issue of whether or not every complaint by every soldier or vet is justified, I agree with the suggestion that we need to be careful so as not to knock the legs out from under those with real problems. On the other hand, I do know (as many of us here may know) that there are a few whiners and posers out there too. Again, not a new thing. Still, I believe that they are a small minority, and the main focus needs to be on helping those in and out of uniform who need it.