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So I guess I should keep my fingers crossed that baby makes her appearance sooner than later so that it happens before trial.

My ex is currently on PAT in Gagetown. We're expecting the birth of our second baby within the next 3 weeks. He had duties on Sunday and got someone else to take it so that he was able to come home and see our son for the weekend. Apparently, he didn't get this or a leave pass approved, and he...

GAP: That is the plan. I am fairly good at moving on, as long as I receive answers and get some closure. Once things are dealt with, I want to put them completely behind us. Although I am certain that it's going to take a fair amount of time to completely forgive, and I'm sure I will never...

Bought the "Living The Dream" army t-shirt for hubby while he was in basic. It's one of his favorite shirts :)

Thank you for all of the replies. Any advice at all is appreciated, and I do mean any  :) Just a quick update for those that asked. All of the details came to surface. It was more than just cheating, it was an actual affair. Physical and emotional. Things went south pretty quickly once that...

I was able to find some info, Gagetown health services offers couples therapy. I guess I was just searching the wrong word. But still, any advice at all would be greatly appreciated.

Not sure if anyone remembers me from about 14 weeks back. I was worried about my husband cheating on me while away at basic. Turns out that he did. We've decided to TRY and work things out. Once things are arranged he is moving my son and I to Gagetown so we can properly give things a better...

Thank you so much! Answered almost all of my questions, except for the RHU one. But, I don't think it matters as I don't believe we're going to qualify for this unless he has a fair amount of space between courses. Again, thank you.

I appologize if this has already been discussed. I've searched over the last few days and haven't been able to find anything regarding this situation. If there is a thread already, please point me in the right direction. My husband graduates BMQ on July 22nd, and is being posted to Gagetown for...

Thanks CDNAIRFORCE. As I said, I do realize that on weekends they're able to do whatever they want, I just kind of assumed I guess that they wouldn't promote it.  As for the fine, boot and phone call... someone could have just made that up. Either way, it's good to know how it really works.

I actually have a question about this. Hubby is currently in basic, and I thought there was a strict no fraternizing policy? It does cross my mind from time to time, but I'm not overly worried about him cheating. If he's going to cheat, he would have already, and if he does he's not worth it...

Ok, that makes sense. Oh, and about the separation pay, if he doesn't start getting it until 3rd or 4th pay, will he be back paid to the beginning? I'm trying to figure out if we will be able to able afford a trip up to St. Jean for a weekend.

Cadaran: I just found that out yesterday, when he told me was week 0 of 13.... lol. I honestly don't have a clue about any of this. Where does BMQ-L take place? Or, better question, where COULD it take place? Towards_The_Gap: I'm not quite sure I understand why he wouldn't do the 2 weeks driver...

Thanks Sapper. He was told yesterday that there is a "good chance" he'll get to come home for two weeks before he heads to Gagetown. I won't be getting my hopes up on that one though.

Hi All, My husband (common law) left for Basic yesterday. In the past few weeks I have been using this site to gain some info on the whole process but there seems to be a few questions I can't find an answer to. I have used the search function, but if someone knows the answers or can point me...