You grieve a decision you don't like agree with. Further, you have to grieve a speficic decision by a specific person. Finally, the decision you have a problem with has to deal with you someone. The redress is basically supposed to undo/reverse that unfavourable (in your opinion) decision.
Getting out of the CAF was your decision, not the CAF's, so getting paid for time not serve cannot be your redress. The only redress here, imo, would be the opening of a harassment complant against the person who you claim was harrasing you.