It depends.
It depends upon specific flying community, on rank and position, whether one is in a flying position or not, whether one is deployed or on exercise or not.
There's a ton of useful information already on this Most Exquisite Site. Please read through older relevant threads. You'll learn far more, and benefit far more, that way.
Success in the Pilot Training Programme is due to a number of factors: inherent skill, talent, and ability, motivation, and, to a lesser degree, luck. One either has the requisite skill, talent, and ability, or one does not. Luck, either good or bad, happens or it does not. The only thing over whichone has any control is motivation, which includes the ability to apply oneself and work hard enough. There is a metric buttload of study required to get through. It cannot be over-estimated.
If you want to enjoy any measure of success, you may as well begin that study right here and get into the right habit.
I am not trying to come across as harsh, just give you a little insight regarding what you need to do to succeed.
This applies to your other thread as well.