Hello,
My wife is going to tell you a bit:
Hello,
You had pm'd me on CMF and I will tell you a little about how it has been going for us. It totally depends on where and how you are adopting if it is private then what ever the mother feels is a good home is fine. If you adopt through Social services which is free and all costs are covered, you will be fine with DH being int he services. They just really want to know what kond of support services are there for youa nd your children, hoe you are going to offer them help when they are missing "daddy". They do recommend that if he can take paterity leave for a bit he does to gain the bond and trust needed in an adoption situation. Also there is alot more paper work involved in the approval process seeing as they need to have a report from teh MP's as well as RCMP and at times the MP shacks can take awhile at completeing that paper work for you. But overall as long as you both attend the calls that are required and complete the home evaluation you will be fine. If may take you longer to complete the courses if your DH goes away alot, as we are still trying to complete them after 1yr but what can you do DH gets sent away he gets sent away its just parf of the course.